On love, On Life

On love, On Life

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So I’m going to use this blog for a second for what it was I guess made to be for.

Blogging, viewing, describing, feeling…etc.


[ri-ley-shuh n-ship]

1. a connection, association, or involvement.
2. connection between persons by blood or marriage.
3. an emotional or other connection between people:
the relationship between teachers and students.
4. a sexual involvement; affair.”
Now, according to the this all of these are true. A relationship can be anything from a friend, to a teacher, to a boyfriend or girlfriend. 
noun, plural honesties.
1. the quality or fact of being honest; uprightness and fairness.
2. truthfulness, sincerity, or frankness.
3. freedom from deceit or fraud.”
As you can see, above that is also true…at least to what we all know.
The reason I’m writing this is because for the past month, 30 freaking days. I’ve talked to 6 people who have be deceitful to their significant other, 12 people who have lied to their friends about big things, not just little white lies and I have lost about 4 friends due to these things. Good friends..or so I thought.
In this day and age, having a cell phone is a blessing and a burden. In 2012, Facebook was declared to be the reason of 1/3 of the reasons for divorce. 1/3 is a huge number. It’s sad how some people just have no respect for others. I have never been at a point in my life where I see so many people just not caring for any one else but themselves. Whether it’s threatening a friend, cheating, lying or even just ditching them all of the time, no one now a days has any regards towards others. (disclaimer: this is just from my POV not talking about the general world) At this time right now in my life I am a quarter of a century old…exactly 25.5 today oddly enough, and it has gotten to a point where I shouldn’t still be seeing this. You expect this in middle school, high school and maybe even college. But, it gets to a point, when is enough, enough?
When will people finally learn that you can’t just treat people the way you want to and get away with it?
If you don’t want to be friends with someone anymore, you are old enough to say you don’t want to be. No one is forcing you to be friends with anyone, to be in that relationship or to even lie to someone.
Every decision you make is your own and to think some people make decision because they think that it is okay, sucks. In this world some people just won’t learn but I would like to think that maybe those friends I lost, those people who I found out were cheating on their others or were cheated on or anything will figure out the right path in life and figure out that everyone needs compassion, love, honesty and just plain respect.

Be thankful

Be thankful for all of those people who destroyed you, the people that talked behind your back, the people that betrayed you and the people that made fun of you when you were younger. You are now growing up to learn how to be the exact opposite of that and THAT is the best.


It really hit me that in January it’ll be 4 years. Being with someone that long really feels like you’ve been together FOREVER but also only been together for 6 months. I don’t even know if it makes sense, but wow time flies.

I took a “Why are you not going to the gym today” quiz…

You got: Because some bar somewhere has a drink special tonight.
Monday is probably trivia night somewhere. On Tuesday, I’m sure you can find a margarita special. On Wednesday, you should reward yourself for being halfway through the week. On Thursday night, you need to celebrate that it’s almost the weekend. On Friday and Saturday, well, it’s Friday and Saturday. And Sunday is your day to relax. So, whatever day it is…you probably deserve a drink.
…this was extremely accurate
Ready for a great junior year at STMYG!!! @ruthann_virginia @joegast @stm_yg

Ready for a great junior year at STMYG!!! @ruthann_virginia @joegast @stm_yg

The 11th graders ready for an awesome year!!! @stm_yg @ruthann_virginia @joegast

The 11th graders ready for an awesome year!!! @stm_yg @ruthann_virginia @joegast


On love, On Life The mind of Lauren Garner.